STATUS OF WOMEN IN ISLAM
Women have a very important place in Islamic
society. Unlike number ofother religions, Islam holds women in high esteem. Her
importance as another and a wife has been clearly stated by Prophet Muhammad
(pbuh).The prophet said, "Paradise lies at the feet of your mothers."
Once a person asked the Prophet, "Who deserves the best care from
me?" The Prophet replied, "Your mother (he repeated this three
times), then your father and then your nearest relatives."
In his farewell speech at 'Arafat in the tenth
year of the Hijrah, the Prophet said,"O people, your wives have certain
rights over you and you have certain rights over them. Treat them well and be
kind to them, for they are your partners and committed helpers."
The Prophet also said, "The best among
you is the one who is the best towards his wife."
These sayings clearly prove the important
position given to women in Islam butthere is still people, especially in the
West, who have misgivings about the status of women in Islam. To these people,
the Muslim women is seen as 'Prisoner in the four walls of the house', a non-person',
and 'someone who has no rights and is living always under the domination of a
man’. These notions are totally wrong and are based on ignorance rather than
knowledge of Islam.
One of the rites of Hajj is the fast walk
between As-Safa and Al-Marwah, which is observed to remember the event of Hajar
(Hagar), mother of Prophet Ismail, who ran between these two hills to find
water. This is another proof of the importance given to women by Islam.
In order to Judge these false ideas held by
western people, it would be useful to survey the attitudes to women in
different societies in the past.
During the Roman civilization, for example, a
woman was regarded as a slave. The Greeks considered her a commodity to be
bought and sold. Early Christianity regarded women as temptresses, responsible
for the fall of Adam.
In India, the Hindus until recently,
considered their women worse then death, pests, serpents or even Hell. A wife's
life ended with the death of her husband. In the past, a widow had to jump into
the flames of her husband’s funeral pyre.
In the pre-Islamic state of Arabia, a woman
was regarded is a cause for grief and unhappiness and baby girls were sometimes
buried alive after birth.
In France, in 587 CE, a meeting was held to
study the status of women and to determine whether a woman could truly be
considered human being or not!. Henry VIII in England forbade the reading of
the Bible by women and throughout the Middle Ages the Catholic Church treated
women as second-class citizens. In the Universities of Cambridge and Oxford,
male and female students were not given the same rights until 1964. Before
1850, women were not counted as citizens in England and English women had no
personal rights until 1882'.
If we keep this picture in mind and look into
the position of the women in Islam, we must conclude that lslam liberated women
from the dark age of obscurity fourteen hundred years ago!
Islam is a religion of common sense and is in
line with human nature. Misrecognises the realities of life. This does not mean
it has recognized equality of man and woman in every respect. Rather, it has
defined their duties in keeping with their different biological make-up
(2:228). Allah hasn’t made man and woman identical, so it would be against
nature to try to have total equality between a man and a woman.
That would destroy the social balance. Society
would not prosper but would instead have insoluble problems such as broken
marriages, illegitimate children and the break-up of family life. These
problems are already rife in western society. Schoolgirl pregnancies, an
increase in abortions, divorce and many other problems have cropped up because
of a permissive outlook and the so-called freedom of women.
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